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“For a first date, this guy challenged me to a game of tennis because I put in my bio that I was a decent tennis player. He really bigged himself up to be great at the sport, but then on the date it was very clear that he’d never played before! He didn’t even know how to hold the racket correctly, but I thought I’d let him off and I went on a second date with him.”
“He then proceeded to tell me how I was the most amazing person he’d ever met, and that he couldn’t wait to introduce me to his mum and sister because they were going to love me. At that point, I had only hung out with the guy for a total of three hours, so this was a BIG red flag for me. It was just way too intense, too quick!”